Second children rarely get a wardrobe of their own, so a gift that earns a spot in the everyday rotation means more than one that sits folded in a drawer. We make our muslin pieces in Bali, double-layer cotton, pre-washed so they arrive soft rather than stiff from the packet. A friend who already has one baby usually knows what didn't get used the first time, so simple and useful is the better bet than something new for the sake of new.